How can somebody be so hateful and that angry? It baffles me. What the hell are they angry about?
Tad, the trouble with MLC is that you can't win. Your X could tell you what the problem(s) is/are and you could go about addressing them. As soon as you did, it would change again and there would be something else to be angry about an on an on...
Truly, if someone is as angry as you say your X is, how can you truly think she's happy? Angry people are not happy, they're miserable and will drag you with them if you allow it.
MLC is not a short trip. Her om will be the brunt of her anger soon enough if he isn't already.
Get a different perspective. It's your choice. You can keep wallowing in this or you can look at the other side and count your blessings. You had the best years with your X, the sane ones where you had a good life and were blessed with your sons.
Keep at it Tad. You're definitely showing signs of getting there!
