Thread #7 - What goes down, might come up.

[25yearsmlc]

Navy,

not sure when this thread will lock up, btw, but here's my .02

The workshop you'll attend is soon. Is it next week? OR the one after? I promise you that you'll have a lot more clarity AND strength to follow through, when you are done with that.

Meanwhile there's no purpose served in you leaving since your kids are in the house.

Other than that, I'm kind of waiting to see what lights go off for you at EE and how your w reacts to your changes. (Don't forget the post workshop support-it's all free and it's frickin' life saving)...

Anyone who tells you to "Serve her papers" is shooting from the hip and perhaps forgetting what THIS particular site is about.

GB maybe you could re-phrase that b/c serving her papers b/c she SAYS she's having dinner with someone whom her h doesn't approve of, won't cut it. And really, is THAT the straw that breaks the back? Gosh, there were so many...

WE know it might be more than a dinner, yes we know, and WE know it's inappropriate but Navy's wife is like many MLCers (even though IMO she's not in a MLC, per se, or if she is, it's a damn long one)

which isn't that she's intentionally doing this to hurt Navy. She might be. But my guess is she's utterly clueless b/c she's self absorbed. Whether that's b/c she's an alcoholic or depressed OR self medicating for her depression....

not sure that ^^^ all matters. Besides GB, I don't know your own sitch anymore b/c you don't post it much, but I do sometimes wonder how you'd advise someone in your own situation...

ANYHOW We're now here for Navy and HIS life, right? Okay Navy, tell us how best we can support you.

I'm really pulling for you to be visibile in that workshop, make the most of it.

It might well be the only time in your life,

that you slow down to take the exit ramp and get to a scenic overlook--

to see where you've been and where you want your life to go AND how to get there.

((( )))