I might be wrong, but I think it's easier for women to DB. I think women can affect a man's behavior more easily than a man can change a woman's. But that is completely my opinion or feeling at the moment and not DB advice. It just seems that way to me.
It's getting FUN, isn't it. You are building the attraction and love all over again. Getting a chance to revisit the beginnings. And make new beginnings. Romance over and over again...with the SAME partner. And what better model for your son.
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001