My H continues to text the boys and refers to me as delusional and crazy. He also continues to write that I've brainwashed them. The boys are so angry. S15 said that he feels controlled by my H since he's not allowed to have his own feelings. He's tired of my H putting me down and saying that this is all my fault. I'm tired of it too. I feel abused. Why is he doing this? It's so frustrating that he doesn't see the harm that he is causing. I'm working hard and minding my own business yet in his mind I'm this psycho person that's poisoned the boys against him. Nothing could be further from the truth. Really, the person that is crazy and delusional is him. However, I haven't said that to him or the boys. Why is he stooping to name calling and put downs? I've been doing great except for these texting frenzies. Each episode drags me backward. I could really use some encouragement and advice.