Thanks for the encouragement. I think I'm keeping on the right track.
Even though H is going out of town on Thursday, I haven't asked him about his plans for my SS10.
I'd love to watch him and would hope that I'd be asked first, since I am his stepmom, but I have no expectations that will happen.
When he gave up on our marriage, he was choosing the life of a single dad when his son is in town to visit. So as my MIL told me to do, I'm just going to sit back and let him figure it out. I'm not going to offer, but will gladly have him over if I'm asked.
So no expectations that I'll be asked first, but I do admit that I will be somewhat upset if he asks one of his friends to do it instead of me. I'm not going to dwell on it and will just wait and see what happens.
M36 XH34 M-5 T7 4/11 H confused 5/11 ILYB 6/11 OW discovered 7/11 I move out, OW over 5/12-OW2,done->new EA, but H wont file 9/12 H "best bf ever" to EA/OW3 3/13 H/OW break up H files 4/13 D 6/18/13
