Assuming she gets home in the next hour, I plan to be upbeat...happy...light hearted....positive. This is what I've been asking for...some simply communication and basic respect. That is my plan. Yeah, she said she'd be home by now, but we're talking baby steps and she took one, so I have to react positive to it regardless, or she won't continue to do it.

If she comes home 2-3 hours late and is hammered, I think I'll just detach and ignore it. I can't really thank her for communicating at that point I don't think...or maybe I can just thank her for trying, I dunno. She says she's leaving, so what can I really say if she chooses to come home at 10pm, or not at all?

Originally Posted By: Mach1
While your words to her, were that you had it under control ( bad choice BTW) , your actions COULD lead you back down that road to same old , same old BD.


Those weren't my exact words....they were slightly better, but honestly, I was a bit caught off guard that she even asked me if I was ok. I tried to convey there was nothing pressing at home and I had dinner (previously agreed).


M:44 W:42
M:15
S:19, D:16, S:14, D:12, S:6
BD: 2/14/11
D Final: 6/25/13