Our H's won't change, Wendy. Far be it for them to have a grown-up conversation with their wives. My H also plays the "let's be friends" game, and I'm not having it anymore. I will be going to a mediator when I return home. I've told him to expect it after I, once again, asked him if he wanted to try again. He hummed and hawed about it's always the same thing ... when I'm happy, he's unhappy and visa versa ... I told him that's marriage, and if we could just sit down and discuss our problems things would've been far better. He just said he's not going to try again, so I told then that's it then.
I'm pretty angry right now, of the waste of time. I have bruises from kicking myself, but love is love, and we do the weirdest things for it ... even wasting time waiting and hoping they'll come back. I'm over it now.
Take care of yourself. I'm glad you're getting all that exercise.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
