I think a LOT of people are in this same boat over houses purchased in the last few years. Something has to give soon, at least I hope so

just wanted to clarify - in case you are thinking of something else.

h bought a house really cheap - or rather his parents bought it and he's gutted the entire thing down to the bones - gave up his rental yesterday - and realized that he has to move in with his parents, because the house is NOWHERE near ready - as in maybe in december, if things go really really well

he is under an enormous amount of stress right now and is losing it left right and center. i don't know if you're following my thread, but he only informed me late the night before he started moving out (day before yesterday!!) and i told the in-laws who didn't know.

me 46 H 38
M10yrs T 11
S10
BD ow 8/11
h filed 9/25/12


"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"