just to add - h had breakfast with s and me this morning - all of us together!!
went well. i was casual and relaxed, he was quite quiet and introspective, slightly tense, s started to get spastic when we first sat down, and h told him to relax.
he got a really good taste of how it could be different. i even got him to make the eggs!!
as an aside - he is repeatedly telling me that buying that house was a bad decision - this morning again.(in fact, i've just realized that every time we've spoken for over a week, he's said that) this time i stayed quiet, and just said - what could make it better? just time , i suppose - and he agreed quietly, yes.
Outstanding interactions!
I think a LOT of people are in this same boat over houses purchased in the last few years. Something has to give soon, at least I hope so.
You are doing a GREAT job! Keep it up!
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
