If it is separation. Get all finances in order. Figure out bills etc... Get snapshots of everything and be prepared to separate it all. Start on the co-parenting plan. Figure out communication etc... Write it out how you want it and be fair and honest.
If it is getting back together to work on it.
Then you need to list what needs to be done to regain your trust. And how you want to work together to repair the damage.
you are so right about getting prepared before I throw this out there to my W.
I know what I want / need to happen before I'm prepared to piece our M back if my W chooses that option when I give her an ultimatum.
If it's separation or piecing, I know I can rely on good friends here and around me who'll have my back every step of the way when I need it.
Bill
Me 34 W 32 D 9 S 6 M: 9 years T: 12 Bomb: 02/11/12 EA/PA: 12/17/11 - ongoing Moved out: Oct 2012 Joint Filed for D: 2/11/13
