Boy if I had a chance I would kick her a$$ and your H's a$$. The wedding ring thing ..are you serious?...that's another one of those MLC things you could never make up!!
At H's work they were pressuring him to do a trip away for 3-4 days. He had told me he didn't want to do it. Our mutual friend told me that he used me as an excuse to his boss "that he had already been away too much and that I would be really unhappy if he went and he couldn't possibly do it to me again"!!!!! Happily married man who cares so much about his wife..not!! So he acts at work as if all is great with the world and his life is in order. Don't you want to scream out to the world what horses a$$'s they really are!!!
Detach, detach, we are better people than that. We will always keep our heads high and act with dignity.
I have taken to calling my H "Oscar" (the Grouch).