Originally Posted By: Valeska19
Tomorrow is my w's 2 yr sobriety in OA. It's laying on my heart to write her a letter saying congrats.

I don't expect it change anything. It just doesn't feel right to ignore it..

... But then again, maybe I shouldn't. I'm not in her life anymore. Because of that.. Maybe the letter is inappropriate.

I don't want to ruin her day with my presence.

IDK.. Thoughts?


How do you know she is still sober? And frankly why do you care one way or the other?

It feels like pursuit and a little like you are grasping for a reason to reach out. I'd let it go but clearly the choice is yours to make.

Me51 W53 S17 S14
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It's easy to find our bottom, it is our top that requires cultivation.

Every rough spot adds to our emotional constitution. -Barney Fife