I would not move out.

The children need a safe environment. That environment is their current home. With the stable parent leading.

If your going to do the boundary then you should prepare for it being broke or not.

So get your paper trail started. That way you can present it all at once.

Dropping the hammer.

Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul.
unconditional love is awesome!