Thanks sweet. I plan a much longer post soon to cover more detail. As of now I am still trying to figure things out.

I have read and re-read the rules several times and to be honest half of them seem counter intuitive. But I plan to follow them as close as I can. Starting today, no more emails or txt through the day. We normally email each other several times a day. Funny thing is, she actually emailed me first at about 4 to ask me something that could have waited til she got home at 5:30

The other thing is I went to the hospital to volunteer as part of my plan to GAL. I got home not long after her and she was immediately asking where I had been and why I was dressed up.