I too was very lucky to have this site. It's great to be around other people who know what you're going through.

I'm sure someone will be around soon to tell the basics, but check out the 37 rules at the top of the forum. Those are our guidelines for divorce busting.

Also, when you have a chance, feel free to give us more details and we'll try to help you out/ empathize as much as possible.

M36 XH34
M-5 T7
4/11 H confused
5/11 ILYB
6/11 OW discovered
7/11 I move out, OW over
5/12-OW2,done->new EA, but H wont file
9/12 H "best bf ever" to EA/OW3
3/13 H/OW break up
H files 4/13
D 6/18/13