Tomorrow is my w's 2 yr sobriety in OA. It's laying on my heart to write her a letter saying congrats.

I don't expect it change anything. It just doesn't feel right to ignore it..

... But then again, maybe I shouldn't. I'm not in her life anymore. Because of that.. Maybe the letter is inappropriate.

I don't want to ruin her day with my presence.

IDK.. Thoughts?


M(f): 40
D'ed: 8/12

Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.

Love at all costs because you are loved well.