Welcome to the forum.

You might want to repost this on the newcomers board.

I see you have more posts in moderation right now.

Please have patience that they will surface to the board.

Have you read Divorce Remedy?

I would suggest you start there.

Also check out the 37 rules.

As far as HOPE goes I think you can always have HOPE but not EXPECTATIONS.

Keep reading, learning and posting.
There is so much you need to learn.

Me-70, D37,S36