Thank you AC and Stunned, I appreciate you taking the time to get back to me.

Am not expecting anything. I am in a decent place now, don't know how we will set up our next rendevous to exchange the boy, but wil see what happens. I would like to propose to her that we meet at our cabin that is currently on the market in upper north central pa. It is almost equidistant for both of us, and would give her an opportunity to go through inside and take anything she may have left behind since last September. I will have to feel her out, I am only thinking of suggesting this because it will give us a chance to talk to the realtor in town to see what we can do to get our place sold.

Any other thoughts out there? For those of you who have been through similar circumstances, any good advice?

m 54
XW 48
m 12
t 14
bomb 6-11
s 10-11
wife moved to other state 10-21-11
d 9-12

O GOD THY SEA IS SO GREAT AND MY BOAT IS SO SMALL!