WHG: And so we file...

[workinghardguy]

Yeah... I know. Her share has probably grown about $1500 so far and grows around $250 a month.

Where I wrestle is if somehow this D doesn't happen then I never send that money away. If we do D she gets it. I'd like to think she'll stick most of it in a retirement account and if we end up recon some day then we can reconnect the funds. But I also know her... and what's most likely is that the money will be gone in short order and even if we do recon there will be nothing left.