Yes, I think kids are attracted to my W. However, I think that the reason has more to do with her tendency to focus her attention on children more so than adults. So by default, because the children crave the attention and because the adults tend to prefer adult conversation with other adults, the kids will gravitate to my W.

And to the question about whether or not my W in an introvert, the answer is yes.

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Sunday turned out to be a miserable day. It had everything to do with planning or the lack thereof. My W has a tendency to put off things until the last minute. It has always been a source of extreme frustration for me. Sunday was no different. She texts me early in the morning inquiring about the plan for the day and quite literally needing me at the house within 15 minutes of her text.

I was quite angry. She had several other options that would have worked out just as well if not better and had she done some advanced planning, things could have worked out beautifully.

So without going into specific detail about the situation, lets just say that my W and I both need to work on effective planning and communication. That will be my goal for the immediate future.

Oh, one other thing that really bothers me. W and I were at a small gathering of mutual friends and acquaintances and W needed to leave to pick up S14 from paintball. We were literally 30 feel away and rather than walk over to tell me she was leaving, she sends me a text. What's up with that? A little avoidant?


Me51 W53 S17 S14
M22 T25
Bomb-9/11; A-11/11; I move out 11/11

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Every rough spot adds to our emotional constitution. -Barney Fife