I would like to think an actual divorce would be relatively amicable, but I think a lot of people have gone into the process thinking that before. I think it might be best to consult a lawyer in any case - at least a consult of some sort.

Sadly, things seemed to be picking up of the past several days. She keeps saying that she still wants to work on things, and she has been more expressive and even affectionate. Perhaps that the 'cake and eat it too' syndrome or just her guilt, but I had hopes.

Why would she seem so improved when just a week ago she put all of the paperwork together?

Seeing my name on the paperwork as defendant in the situation was like putting a knife in my heart.


M = 44
W = 47
Mar = 11 years
T = 12 years
S8, d10, ss22
ILYBINILWY June 26, 2012
I need to be free and live July 10, 2012