Very happy to have found this site. It's been almost a month since my wife of 10 years told me she did not love me anymore and wanted a divorce. Since then, I have been doing everything wrong.
The DR book is supposed to be in today. I look forward to reading it and getting a grip on my life.
The last time she and I talked, I told her I felt 3 ways about it. 1--I wanted to do whatever it takes to save our marriage 2--I would just go along with her idea of a no fault divorce. 3--I wanted to make the divorce as messy and ugly and nasty as possible.
As of now, I still want #1 as much as anything but I don't know if it is even possible. We have a 5 year old son and it kills me to think how this is going to hurt him.
She is so cold and emotionless when we talk. Like the 11 years we have been together mean nothing now. It really bothers me.
I plan a longer post with more details soon. I just wanted to introduce myself and what is gong on.
