He is definitely misplacing his guilt on others. But it was a good chance for me to tell him about how difficult managing Ryan has been. He does not seem to comprehend that Ryan can't walk. Never knew we used lifts at home or had done a huge reno to accommodate him. He is miffed that he isn't swimming every day. Ahem - due to the divorce - I moved OUT of the house that was built for Ryan's needs - the one with the indoor pool. The community pool won't allow him to swim when he has MRSA.
He didn't get it on so many levels. He even tried to tell me about his bout of Epstein Barr Syndrome as if he had never told me before - yet we had texted about it in Feb.
I've always felt that his mind was going and that he continued to drink but just listening to him made me more sure of it than ever.