No.. it means she has absolutely no respect for you or your feelings. She is takling to you and treating you like her gay friend or GF. If she had an once of concern for you as her man she would never even consider it. Especially after you mentioned your concerns. You and your feelings simply don't rate.
I know you are trying to save your marriage but unless a women respects a man she can never love him. Not as a man maybe as a pet or a friend. Is that enough for you? Really? Look I was USAF for 20 yrs, I always thought you swabbies had a bit more pride than this my friend. Not meant to smack you down but get a backbone for gods sake. Make decsions from strength not fear. You can handle it and so can your kids.
M: 50, W: 48 M: 26 yrs S:25, D:24, S:20, D:19 Hard at work on my marriage everyday! There is hope, there is life, it is the only life we have....
