I need to pipe in here and say this sort of blatant behavior is precisely what a lot of MLC WAS do. I mean, hell, they go so far as to even discuss having dinner over at the OW/OM or discuss meeting the friends of the OW/OM.
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Not sure I understand what you are getting at here...are you saying W is "putting on a show" for me to get me to react?
I'm not sure what YC meant, I do want to explain something VERY CLEARLY.
Your W would very likely have you pissed off with her because of an OM, then to admit she's going out to drink.
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Look man...
My mother abandoned her children over the bottle.
She had now abandoned her grand children over the bottle.
Literally, my mother WILL risk the safety and well being of her children AND ANYONE ELSE afaik in order to get her fix.
And alcohol and domestic violence, in the guise of "boundaries"?
Ain't worth a freakin' penny, boundaries... not in ANY way to an alcoholic.
Navy, this is your life. I am sorry. I completely feel for you and your sitch. Believe me, my dad is no saint. Far from it. Yet, he struggles daily to stay in this M. I see him suffer. I am suffering because right now, I am living with them, and until I can afford to get out, I can not see my kids as often because while they know, I WILL NOT expose my kids to this.
Until there is actually proof positive that your W is off the bottle...
