Omg you just re-enacted the exact same conversation I have had with H over and over. I am so sorry you have to deal with this mess I wish I had better words of encouragement. But again, just know you are not alone.
(((HRM)))
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"