navy, i feel so sad for you that you feel you deserve this kind of disrespect. i know so many wise people on here have offered advice and encouragement and yet, you don't take it and enforce boundaries.
it's hard to know what to tell you. nothing seems to register enough to get you to love yourself.
((()))
Thanks SS. I know it has to be so frustrating for everyone trying to help me. It's hard to explain how I feel. I don't feel I deserve this type of disrespect...nobody does. W does not see it as disrespectful behavior. I think W honestly sees little wrong with her hanging out with this guy...and what wrong she does see, she's going to ignore just to prove a point.
I had a good time with the kids while she was gone...at least up until bedtime when I discovered D6 had lice. Ewwww. So I got them both dressed and took them to the store to get the medicine for that. W got home around 9:30 as I was starting to comb all the dead lice out of D6's hair. When she got home she helped bag up all of D6's sheets and stuffed animals so we can wash them, then she went out to the deck. So, she spent about 5 hours with him. I didn't even ask her about it. I figure I can wait until tomorrow's MC to bring it up.
BITS M: 35 W: 35 T14, M11 D9, S6 ILYBINILY: June 09 Unofficially Separated (long distance): 1/2/11 W came home: 3/17/11 EE: July 2012 Dropped the rope: Oct 2012 Piecing: April 2013 Not piecing: April 2014 Stuck.