i'm sorry you had a rough weekend - i have those days too and they confuse me. i guess we just do this in degrees
is it pursuing? well, to me it sounds like he's trying to move closer - so your job is to stay still and not let the expectations rise, right?
i imagine that he hasn't YET consciously realized that he is throwing out all these negative comments about ow. it may be the beginning of the crumbling.
whatever you're doing seems to be working so don't change anything. seems to me, that he has become comfortable enough around you to drop those comments - your reaction must be correct because he continues to do so. no sudden moves on your part, right - feral cat stuff....
you can have your 'bad' days - and you know what's funny - i'll have a really bad day - and then, out of the blue the next day h will do something totally unexpected and move closer. i think we get ourselves sooo cooked up!
chill out and let life happen, ok?
big hugs zig
me 46 H 38 M10yrs T 11 S10 BD ow 8/11 h filed 9/25/12
"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"
