Hrm,

Sorry you are going through this and as always, snodderly is right.

Your whole post brings back memories and is total script with many

of the key words they use. In particular the word "Plan". You will

never be able to fulfill whatever the plan is supposed to be. It

will be like trying to catch a blowing oak leaf in a giant oak

wood forest in the fall. In fact, they don't even know what the

"Plan" is supposed to be.

All of your post resonates with what my XW said in the early

days of her MLC.

As time rolls forward, bits and pieces of what this all means reveals

itself and you will see the person for the empty shell they are.

I truly feel for the emotional turmoil you are experiencing. I

wish I could tell you it gets better and they come to their

senses but only time will tell on that.

So the answer for you at this moment is to start down your path

which will help you find your way through this mess.

I am sure you have read alot already but this is where GAL

activities is the standard procedure for us LBS's.

Please hang in there and you will get through this especially

with the help and support of the people here.

WS