Looking for envelopes by wife's desk and found divorce papers. She has not officially filed - just printed out the forms (with our names on it) and it has her lawyer information with some notes about different methods to go about things.
Of late, my wife has been saying while she's confused she still tells me that she wants to work on things. These papers were dated July 9th - which is about a week ago from this post.
Part of me wants to confront her to see if she had planned to serve me all along while her guilt or shame or whatever was telling me there was still a chance. It's 1:30 am and she took the kids to the shore alone (which was great and my suggestion) for a few days. I almost sent her a text to see if that would wake her up, but my cooler side is prevailing.
Am I being naive to think that she just printed the papers and consulted a lawyer for the sake of covering her bases in case we don't work out? Should I just keep this information to myself and continue on with detachment and getting my own life in order rather than confronting? Of course, I'll have to consult a lawyer now and probably should have done so sooner.
It was very painful to see these papers - like a knife in the heart. I have been having a hard time lately staying upbeat all the time, and this is just going to make things so much harder.
Please let me know your thoughts everyone.
And, if possible, the title of this thread must relate to the fact that I tried to post in the vets and newbies thread to get advice there. Might the title be changed to something like "Confused WAW or MLC"? I am hoping to get as much advice as possible.
M = 44 W = 47 Mar = 11 years T = 12 years S8, d10, ss22 ILYBINILWY June 26, 2012 I need to be free and live July 10, 2012
