I think at some point you have to realize you've had the same complaint since I've been to DB-land. 3 or 4 years now. The question you have to ask yourself, is would you want your son to endure such torture?
Also do you want to look back upon yourself 15 years from now and have the same signature line as "The Captain" ( Last sex 05/1998 ). I think we can safely assume he's not getting anymore from that location, and sometimes thats just how it is.
Is that what you really want to do with your life? Do you think someone who cares about you would even WANT you to be in such a position?
Even going from none to once or twice a week would be a life changing improvement for you. But I don't think many of us are seeing that as likely.
Once again I'm not trying to kick anyone while they where down, when I was in the bad relationship, it was just hard for me to accept that the person who I feel for was no longer there, and that having me in a painful position with none of my needs met, mistreatment, etc was no accident.
