What am I willing to settle for? Somebody who has a sexual energy level where they would want to have sex about once a day on average. And I don't just mean the physical part. But also a mental/fantasy energy to want to try all kinds of things.

Somebody who, one a Saturday, for example, would get a kick out of having sex 3-4 times. The most I ever could convince my wife to do was twice in a day, and the 2nd time was only with my pushing for it. And sure, skip a day when we're busy, etc. I'm not that crazy.

I just don't see any way my wife would EVER be interested in this kind of thing, much less even grudgingly have sex only once a week just for my sake (groan). Haven't given up yet though. But I'm thining that winning the lottery is probably easier.