Thread #7 - What goes down, might come up.

[Navyguy]

Well, I got home from soccer today and W tells me she's made plans to go hang out with her new friend. I didn't react well. I told her that I don't think her going over to his house is something I can accept in our situation. I told her that I'm not going to tell her what to do, it's her choice. She went and is there now. .

I'm really struggling with trusting her and now on top of that I'm beating myself up for missing the chance to show her that I want her to have an outside life and that I don't want to control her.

I think she really does see this as the same as hanging out with one of her girlfriends. All I can do at this point is let go...but as you all know that is something that for whatever reason, I can't do.