No, I'm not going to tear you up, sorry that you feel that way when folks here give you suggestions that may be counter to what you are doing or thinking. The best help I've gotten from DB has been things that I didn't really want to hear, but needed to hear.
Good luck to you in your search.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
