I was always under the impression that Priests were advocates of marriage... so what I'm looking for is twofold... first, I'm looking for additional spiritual guidance from a Catholic perspective... Secondly, my W has always been very involved in church and faith, and yet finds it very easy to walk away from her marriage... the Bible is very clear on marriage being a covenant before God... I am hoping that a priest may be able to talk to W and at least get her in the same room with me so that we can discuss and get counseled... in my opinion, our kids at least are worth any effort we put into reconciliation... I'm grasping at straws... but I was encouraged that after telling a complete stranger my story, she let me know she had been in a very similar situation and our head Priest tracked her H down and talked him into counseling where he was unwilling before... I was just hoping for the same opportunity... it appears, though that I will not be getting it.. thus far they have been unwilling to do or say say anything to my W because she works there at the church part time... I think that is unfair...
sorry, that turned into a rant, and I'm sure, Labug, you will tear me apart in your reply, but I'm willing to go at this from any angle... Prayer and meditation may not bring my W back, but I feel as though I have to try...
with just a few minor missteps along the way I have followed exactly what my IC and DB coach have advised and nothing has changed... in fact it appears to me as if things have gotten worse...
so, at any rate, tear away.. you may change my mind...
with faith... be good and stay safe...
M:40 W:31 S:8 S:5 D:8(prev. relationship) Bomb dropped: 5/10/12 It's not you it's me MO: 6/1/12 T:14 M:9
