Hello all! Made it back safely from Philly, glad to be home too! I'm definitely a country girl. Driving in Philly sure is a pain, you can only turn at about every third light and apparently they are against putting lines on the road so people know where the turning lanes are! LOL
Takevowsserious~I too like being an adult, apparently they didn't get the memo that being an adult doesn't mean you can't be silly and have fun while being responsible... perhaps they should collectively hop on the clue train! While video taping may seem like a good idea, I'm sure they would definitely twist it to make it seem like what they are doing is perfectly logical. I have learned not to argue with crazy. I have also learned silence truly is golden.
Kaffe~ lmao, you are too funny! Yeah, we apparently can't share friends (or relatives) either.... apparently he got custody of his entire crazy family (fine by me, less crazy to deal with at one time the better), and I apparently got sole custody of my family (even though they would have a relationship with him).... also friends of mine he had become friends with too are apparently in my custody as well. Guess they are like toddlers sometimes, no sharing!!! Honestly, I think they have to work very hard to convince everyone in their lives (including themselves) they are right, happy, and making the right decisions, when clearly they are not. Rationalization= Rational LIES we tell ourselves. We can add those to projection, aren't defense mechanisms fun???
wishing, hoping~ It is nice not to be alone in this madness, that's for sure! Keep an eye on that toothbrush, I'm sure it will continue it's travels! On the up side you can laugh at it now, and it serves as a good reminder of the confusion that must be going on in his head. I mean how hard is it to commit to putting a toothbrush back in the holder? Laughing is definitely better than crying... I just don't think there's enough popcorn in the world for this show.... Speaking of popcorn I did discover the awesomeness of salt and vinegar popcorn, YUM! Also, love the Lifetime movie idea! I could totally see it, it would be most viewed by far!
AJM~I like your ideas! The toothbrush chronicles has a nice ring to it! LOL Honestly, yeah, if you step back and take your own emotional connection to the situation out of it, and all the hurt and pain, it's extremely funny.... who needs soap operas! Not me that's for sure,living one's way more soap opera than I need!
Wendy~ Of course he was mad, you never know, those toothbrushes might start talking, and conspiring! LOL Or maybe, just maybe, you would get the wrong idea because his toothbrush touched yours! Hard to know in Crazytown, could be anything! Thank you for sharing the story, it made me laugh.
Snodderly~His toothbrush is still on the far side of the sink. Gotta make sure it's good and far away from mine. lol Every time I clean the bathroom I put it back in the holder, he never says a word. He usually moves it back when he uses it next, sometimes he lets it in there until I do or say something he doesn't like.
Today was the first time I spoke to H since last Sunday, and it's only because he had to ask me to sign the registration for "his" car. He seemed down, don't know, he's been a texting fool again these last few days. I am doing pretty good at detaching, just constantly reminding myself not my problem, not about me. I'm sure he will be out a lot the next few days, he usually is when I've been away or out late, and I have done both recently. I'm guessing we have to prove a point, don't know what that point is because I'm not in his messed up mind, but a point no the less. After I got back from Philly yesterday I ended up going to the drive in with another friend so I didn't get home until 2:30, and the night before I went to Philly (Thursday night)the same friend and I had gone to see a movie and I didn't get home until 1:30 which is not usual for me on a work night. So I hope that's some good mystery, but whatever, I'm enjoying GAL and being with people who enjoy being in my company. Contrary to Crazytown belief, I'm a fun person, who's worthwhile to be around!
Driving in Philly sure is a pain, you can only turn at about every third light and apparently they are against putting lines on the road so people know where the turning lanes are! LOL 
