well - quite a discussion going on while i was meditating and posting myself.
KD, labug - thanks - i like the differentiation you make between ultimate boundaries and ultimatums - good for me to read that
KD - i'll start a new thread later - need to just go through this discussion first here - sort of symbolically need to resolve this before starting the next step - it's imminent!!
going back to read what you guys wrote again
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"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"