Wow zig, I have just been catching up. My head is spinning from what you have been through emotionally over the past fewndays but you and theothersnthatbwerein the discussion really articulated so many similar feelings and thoughts that I know i have constantly.

Iwill re read and get back to you.
((( )))

Ps KD thank you for those posts as well. It certainly cleared up some confusion in my head :-)

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home