oh YC - good to hear from you and thanks for posting to me. i have been keeping up on your sitch, especially on your holiday, even though i haven't posted
i guess you missed the post where i did acknowledge my feelings to my friend on the phone and then decided to break my pattern and go.
but i'm glad you posted about your parents - that is the recipe for a successful r, and i am sorry that that was not mine or my h's way to handle things.
i think i was already seeing that today without realizing it, and even though it was over an hour later than i said i'd go there - i did go, and i enjoyed myself
how are you feeling now - are you still on your trip or back home. hope you are doing great and really enjoying yourself
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me 46 H 38 M10yrs T 11 S10 BD ow 8/11 h filed 9/25/12
"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"
