Just to let you know, I don't think I would change what I posted, given your explanations.
Brit, vera and I all saw something in your posts. We could excuse that as a mistyping on your part... I'm not so sure...
Boundaries are a pretty important aspect of piecing. When we aren't piecing, boundaries really make no sense to the WAS.
"If you don't come back to me right this instant, if you don't stop with the OP, if you don't stop spewing at me and blaming me for everything, if you don't own your responsibility for the breakdown of the M, I'm gonna D you... and just so you know, I will not tolerate someone being rude and disrespectful to me!", says the LBS...
And the WAS is thinking... "and... so...?"
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Consider zig, that while you are scared and confused when your H appears to move closer to you... that if it was just a friend spending more time with you, you would probably not give it a second thought...
It sounds like you are living in fear of being rejected again...
You can't feel rejected if you aren't thinking the two of you are an item...
Anyone on the outside, if the two of you were just friends, might be thinking... "awww... isn't that cute... they like each other but haven't figured it out, yet..."
