thanks vera - i too, felt that he was drawn to me, and what i found interesting was that the last 3 months when we've been around the family, he's really avoided me. today - he initiated me coming over there - not his mom or the circumstances, AND he sat with me really apart from the others. he's done that in the past - last fall, but not these last few months. in fact - just as recently as late may - when we were at s's school for the last day celebrations and in-laws were there, he made a point to not even come near us the entire time. so this was quite a step, considering that just 4 days ago at his b'day dinner he couldn't come anywhere near me!!
KD I think what you are saying makes perfect sense in zig's situation, where there's no imminent D.
the night we spent together - h had basically come over to tell me he was filing!
you are never hijacking - and if you want to that's fine with me always
hope you're well - with all this upheaval i am feeling today, i haven't had a chance to catch up on everyone's threads!
zig
me 46 H 38 M10yrs T 11 S10 BD ow 8/11 h filed 9/25/12
"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"
