Zig, Brit, KD

This discussion is SO good.
Thank you!

It's cleared up a lot of issues for me around whether to act dim/dark because I'm in LRT or whether to be warm, friendly, etc.

It's finally just clicked for me - and I can see how I was often trying to pull back in ways that were counterproductive before.

I don't want to keep acting from a place of fear, anger and pain.

I feel a big sense of relief reading this.

Cheers,
NLW