As far as OW. She is my polar opposite and as far as I am concerned she can have him. He is nothing but a large child and he is more exhausting than my own children.
You realize that this is MLC script what you have written. She is OPPOSITE - script. And she is doing you a favor by taking care of your H while he is in crazy land. Yup he is a child, more MLC script!
He has a lot of growing up to do but like a child it will not happen quickly.