I was just reading a link on "musing of Amyc" and it was about the difference between bi polar and narcissism.
My gosh I wish I could've read that a long time ago. All this time I really thought my XH was a narcissist, but now I really do see his behaviors are truly more like bi polar disorder.
He really had appeared remorseful at times and even at BD. It explained the behaviors in much more better detail...how a bi polar can act high and happy yet turn around and just rip you to shreds.
And that the first manic phase usually doesn't present itself till after the age of 20.
My XH confided in me years ago, that he's always gone through really depressed times, for no apparent reason and he never understood why. But they pass and he feels better.
Ok...back to prayer and trying to do what our main man JC(Jesus Christ) would do in this situation.
Also...is it normal for the new OP to ignore the MLCers children? Hang all over the MLCer, and give semi smart ass remarks to the kids? Usually refuse to do anything with them when invited by XH? I swear she acts like she's jealous of my kids and her explained behavior this last visit says to me "Im here and Im not going away girls. Live with it. Your Dad is mine whether you like it or not."
