You know you could use some of that to your advantage. Maybe you can start indulging in some of her fantasies. For example, maybe you might want to surprise her with some toy or something else that might turn her on and especially turn her on towards you.
It sounds like there's some self-fulfillment that she's trying to get to. You will have to make the decision if you want to be part of that or not. That will decide on how far you will be detaching.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.