I will soldier on for the time being! I have a few more days to consider what I will do
Bill, yep, a few trust issues on the social front that's right! It all started way back when he lied to me in our early days together over some girl. I never got over that. I don't know about you, but my H hovers around females in a group because they are easier to talk to. He says it is as if he is talking to a guy. Whatever. It's an issue I'm going to have to deal with if we get back on track.
We talked a little bit about that this time around and he said that it was something he wouldn't change and that he doesn't understand what the big deal is. I said, "You are playing with fire. And, if you play with fire you will get burned."
The only thing that will make him see/feel it clearly is if I do exactly the same. But, if there are any other ideas you might have on this front, I'm all ears.