Yep, that's right where you want to be roughenough, perfect IMO. If you can, take a look at "Controlled Separation" before you get in there. Maybe they have it at the library. If you plan on talking about the kids, that book might have some things to think about. I'm sure W will appreciate it if you are prepared.

Accuray

Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015