Thanks for that - I've just been laughing really loud to that comment.
I think the fact that she's hid them, makes me think of 2 possibilities - it's a surprise for me, the underwear is pretty hot - not so sure I wanna get involved with a vibrator though - if there's one thing I don't need it's something else chewing my ass
Or it's a statement of - I don't want or need you & this underwear is for somebody else.
But seriously though, I mean why is this stuff not bothering me?
Maybe I need to leave it a week or 2 to see if I feel the same way, but right now I'm feeling like I don't really care what she does & I might actually be OK with a formal separation.
I'm hoping this will pass, so I'm just going to take stock & think it over, without doing anything rash.
Me 34 W 32 D 9 S 6 M: 9 years T: 12 Bomb: 02/11/12 EA/PA: 12/17/11 - ongoing Moved out: Oct 2012 Joint Filed for D: 2/11/13