The trouble I have is I am an emotional person who has strong reactions to situations. I feel fully through and through, so I'm having to learn to control my emotions more. This will be very difficult for me, as I have already demonstrated.
Also, I had no idea how to handle an affair. I made mistakes because I thought I had to be tough on WW. I should show her that if she intends to go on with the A that I should be willing to leave her. I had no idea about divorce busting or any other clue about infidelity. I've been learning on the fly as best I can.
I did not react last evening to my WW coming home at 11pm, which was tough. I even went downstairs and talked with her about things without showing any anger or tears. I was calm and talked casually, then went to bed.
It just takes time to get used to trying to let it go. Thanks for the support, which makes this easier.
____________________________________ Me: 42 WW: 46 Married: 14y D-Day: 5/18/2012 D 12, S 8 Status: In my room, but A Continues
