Regardless how you feel about her, you're going to have to find some way to at least be civil with her for your D's sake.

How did you meet initially? Did she ever bring up complaints before about wanting to go out and you not wanting to participate?

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER